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Keep your Fantasies alive for a fulfilling Sex Life 3:53

Keep your Fantasies alive for a fulfilling Sex Life

Balendu explains the importance of sexual fantasies for active sexual enjoyment. http://www.balendu....

Sex on the first date? 5:03

Sex on the first date?

Read why Balendu thinks it should be no rule not to have sex on the first date - but also not a must...

Do not use Sex to gain a Relationship 2:50

Do not use Sex to gain a Relationship

Balendu talks about sex that is sometimes used to force another person into a relationship, as it is...

A fake Media World creating wrong Ideals in Girls’ Minds 4:05

A fake Media World creating wrong Ideals in Girls’ Minds

As a father, Balendu contemplates how he wants his daughter to grow up with values, knowing that the...

Sexual Fantasy of watching and being watched - not only as a Pornstar 6:01

Sexual Fantasy of watching and being watched - not only...

Listen to a humorous but still relevant idea of sharing your sex life not only with your partner. ht...

Longer, louder, better - does Porn help your Sex Life? 8:15

Longer, louder, better - does Porn help your Sex Life?

Balendu explains how porn can actually create arousal and thus increase the wish to have sex - but h...

Jealousy comes from Insecurity, not from Love 4:07

Jealousy comes from Insecurity, not from Love

Why jealousy is not a sign of love but of fear to lose the other one. Balendu tells how it is also c...

Do not bring your Office to the Bedroom! 3:16

Do not bring your Office to the Bedroom!

Balendu tells how it can affect even your love life if you bring emails, work talk and more not only...

Be ready to accept Change 2:16

Be ready to accept Change

When time, experience or science shows you that you were wrong, don‘t fight - but accept and go wi...

Anger Management - stop hitting that Cushion! 3:39

Anger Management - stop hitting that Cushion!

Balendu explains why letting out your anger does not reduce but instead increase aggression. https:/...

Multiple Sexual Relations - a Question of Honesty, not Morality 3:58

Multiple Sexual Relations - a Question of Honesty, not Morality

Balendu talks about monogamy and high libido, how there are no excuses for cheating and polygamy hap...

Know what you want - and don‘t be shy to say it! 3:51

Know what you want - and don‘t be shy to...

"Let me think about it" - Balendu reflects the two reasons why someone says this sentence. https://w...

Why it is necessary to talk about Sex 5:55

Why it is necessary to talk about Sex

Balendu tells why he is not afraid to talk about a topic that not everyone talks about - and why he ...

Independence and Freedom for a happy Relationship 3:25

Independence and Freedom for a happy Relationship

Balendu tells how it can feel ‚too much‘ if the partner‘s happiness completely depends on you....

Sexual Relations with multiple People - why it is not unnatural 5:35

Sexual Relations with multiple People - why it is not...

Have the urge for more than just your partner? Balendu tells why this doesn’t make you a bad perso...

Don’t expect your Partner to read your Mind! 2:31

Don’t expect your Partner to read your Mind!

Balendu explains why we need to express our wishes and expectations in order to avoid disappointment...

Can you love several people - and sleep with them, too? 2:36

Can you love several people - and sleep with them,...

Balendu tells of a counseling session with a lady in a special situation. https://www.balendu.net...

Look at the Trigger of your Anger instead of starting a Fight! 3:55

Look at the Trigger of your Anger instead of starting...

Balendu explains how anger is often triggered by a feeling inside you instead of another person‘s ...

Be open to try your Partner‘s sexual Fantasies! 2:22

Be open to try your Partner‘s sexual Fantasies!

Balendu’s recommendation: you do not need to fulfill all of your partner‘s fantasies - but at th...

Corona shows us what is important in Life 2:59

Corona shows us what is important in Life

Balendu suggests looking at what we got from this Corona time: a focus on values and health instead ...

Threesomes and more - openly listen to your Partner‘s sexual Fantasies 2:20

Threesomes and more - openly listen to your Partner‘s sexual...

Get another thought on functional relationships by Balendu: listen, be open and talk!! https://www.b...

Talking about sexual Fantasies can help Intimacy 3:28

Talking about sexual Fantasies can help Intimacy

Balendu tells how a couple longing for more closeness and libido could start exploring their intimat...

A popular Relationship Dilemma 2:29

A popular Relationship Dilemma

Balendu tells a joke about a common problem about partners: they act as though they were parent and ...

When will Corona finally go away??? 2:36

When will Corona finally go away???

Balendu answers: never! See here why... https://www.balendu.net...

Low Libido in a loving Relationship? Talk about it - and make a Change! 2:59

Low Libido in a loving Relationship? Talk about it -...

Balendu tells of a couple who came to him for advice. They wanted to have sex - but then didn‘t fe...

Isolation with your Partner - Blessing or Curse? 3:14

Isolation with your Partner - Blessing or Curse?

Annoyed with your partner while being in isolation? Listen to Balendu‘s idea how to get along well...

Unconditional Love - a superficial Concept? 3:46

Unconditional Love - a superficial Concept?

Balendu talks about the idea that love and friendship has to be unconditional and without expectatio...

Between Carelessness and Panic - how to deal with Corona 4:02

Between Carelessness and Panic - how to deal with Corona

Balendu suggests not to follow conspiracy theories but also not to celebrate corona parties - listen...

Fear doesn’t help! Stay mentally strong! 6:23

Fear doesn’t help! Stay mentally strong!

Balendu explains why you need mental strength in the times of Corona and how you can achieve that. h...

Golden Milk Recipe for boosting your Immune System 10:31

Golden Milk Recipe for boosting your Immune System

Balendu makes Golden Milk and explains the benefits this drink has on your immune system, your brain...

Immune-System-Booster: Recipe for Ginger and Turmeric in Lemon Juice 6:07

Immune-System-Booster: Recipe for Ginger and Turmeric in Lemon Juice

Balendu shows how to make a tasty and easy addition to rice, bread or vegetables that will give you ...

Food and Sex - Keep your immune System strong! 5:10

Food and Sex - Keep your immune System strong!

Balendu gives some tips on how one can keep his immune system high up during the time of isolation d...

Corona - Don‘t panic, stay positive! 2:47

Corona - Don‘t panic, stay positive!

Balendu encourages people to remain positive, keep physical distance but to unite socially during th...

Arranged Marriage and its Problems 3:31

Arranged Marriage and its Problems

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Afraid of getting hurt while cheating on your Partner 3:54

Afraid of getting hurt while cheating on your Partner

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Limiting your Relationship to Terms like 'Long-Term' or 'Short-Term' 2:13

Limiting your Relationship to Terms like 'Long-Term' or 'Short-Term'

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Change yourself instead of wanting to change others 1:42

Change yourself instead of wanting to change others

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Just like my Mother! 1:01

Just like my Mother!

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Shopping what you really don't need 4:45

Shopping what you really don't need

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Love Spells don't Work for two Reasons 1:47

Love Spells don't Work for two Reasons

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The biggest Art is spending your Money 3:51

The biggest Art is spending your Money

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My Love is the Source of all my Desires 0:40

My Love is the Source of all my Desires

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A funny Situation created by Polygamy 2:09

A funny Situation created by Polygamy

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How to lose Weight - Use your Willpower! 3:16

How to lose Weight - Use your Willpower!

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Is Spirituality still only a Hobby for you? 2:02

Is Spirituality still only a Hobby for you?

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Get used to breaking your self-made Limits 1:09

Get used to breaking your self-made Limits

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Negative vs. Positive Thinking 1:29

Negative vs. Positive Thinking

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Your Mood is yours 2:59

Your Mood is yours

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Your Thoughts, Words and Actions should be the same 1:28

Your Thoughts, Words and Actions should be the same

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Anger Management 3:00

Anger Management

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How to and how not to quit smoking 2:57

How to and how not to quit smoking

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Making Life difficult for yourself 1:55

Making Life difficult for yourself

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16 kg Grains for producing 1 kg of Meat 2:51

16 kg Grains for producing 1 kg of Meat

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Why don't you eat your dog if you eat cows and pigs? 3:47

Why don't you eat your dog if you eat cows...

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Vegetarianism won't kill you 5:33

Vegetarianism won't kill you

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Four Types of Questioners - Curious, Intelligent, Testing and Critics 3:32

Four Types of Questioners - Curious, Intelligent, Testing and Critics

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Get rid of your guilty Feelings 4:32

Get rid of your guilty Feelings

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How to Stop supressing Anger 4:42

How to Stop supressing Anger

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Parents' responsibility if children smoke and drink 2:34

Parents' responsibility if children smoke and drink

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How to deal with Negativity? 4:03

How to deal with Negativity?

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Reason for forgiving 0:43

Reason for forgiving

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Do not play a role 0:55

Do not play a role

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What is Meditation? 1:29

What is Meditation?

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Materializing love not gold 3:15

Materializing love not gold

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Knowing each other, trusting, loving and then a Relationship 1:08

Knowing each other, trusting, loving and then a Relationship

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Fall in love often 0:37

Fall in love often

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You can only give what you have 0:59

You can only give what you have

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Detachment is giving Joy to others 2:31

Detachment is giving Joy to others

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Buy Enlightenment in $ 5000 1:46

Buy Enlightenment in $ 5000

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No need of spiritual Name - Accept your Identity 1:23

No need of spiritual Name - Accept your Identity

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Parameters of Beauty 1:31

Parameters of Beauty

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Doubts in Relationships 1:03

Doubts in Relationships

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How we are used to things which are impure 3:05

How we are used to things which are impure

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Trust your feelings and listen to your heart 1:39

Trust your feelings and listen to your heart

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Express yourself in silence 0:23

Express yourself in silence

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Accept, respect and love yourself 1:09

Accept, respect and love yourself

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Feel your Feelings 1:34

Feel your Feelings

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Eat consciously 1:01

Eat consciously

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Let your feelings flow 0:50

Let your feelings flow

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Patanjali is shocked about Yoga today 2:02

Patanjali is shocked about Yoga today

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