Tag: Guilt

Let your Children make their own Mistakes - it helps them develop their potential! - 29 Sep 16
Let your Children make their own Mistakes – it helps them develop their potential! – 29 Sep 16
Swami Balendu explains why it is important not to shield your child from every mistake ... Read More
Lass deine Kinder ihre eigenen Fehler machen - es hilft ihnen, ihr Potential zu entwickeln! - 29 Sep 16
Lass deine Kinder ihre eigenen Fehler machen – es hilft ihnen, ihr Potential zu entwickeln! – 29 Sep 16
Swami Balendu explains why it is important not to shield your child from every mistake ... Read More
No Guilt but enjoying Sex - even when talking about it afterwards! - 27 Sep 16
No Guilt but enjoying Sex – even when talking about it afterwards! – 27 Sep 16
Swami Balendu writes once more about sex and why it is completely unnecessary and wrong ... Read More
The big Taboo of Sex - still making People feel guilty around the World! - 26 Sep 16
The big Taboo of Sex – still making People feel guilty around the World! – 26 Sep 16
Swami Balendu writes that sex is still a taboo topic in India and around the ... Read More
Why you should not try to be perfect - 24 Feb 16
Why you should not try to be perfect – 24 Feb 16
Swami Balendu explains how your perfectionism can actually harm you. Read about mistakes, lessons for ... Read More
Please don't feel guilty for enjoying yourself! - 5 Oct 15
Please don’t feel guilty for enjoying yourself! – 5 Oct 15
Swami Balendu tells why you should do things you really want to do without having ... Read More
Give yourself a Hand - why you should masturbate without feeling guilty! - 3 Jun 15
Give yourself a Hand – why you should masturbate without feeling guilty! – 3 Jun 15
Swami Balendu tells why masturbating is just natural and nothing that could harm you in ... Read More
Keep your Children busy and off the TV – but not because they are a Burden for you! - 20 Apr 15
Keep your Children busy and off the TV – but not because they are a Burden for you! – 20 Apr 15
Swami Balendu describes a good idea with a bad execution and very bad advertisement! Read ... Read More
Don't feel guilty if you have untraditional sexual Fantasies! - 21 Dec 14
Don’t feel guilty if you have untraditional sexual Fantasies! – 21 Dec 14
Swami Balendu tells of a woman who came to him with guilty feelings due to ... Read More
Don't feel guilty about being Vegetarian among Meat-eating Friends - 9 Dec 14
Don’t feel guilty about being Vegetarian among Meat-eating Friends – 9 Dec 14
Swami Balendu describes the uncomfortable situation vegetarians sometimes face when they go in restaurants that ... Read More
'Let's talk about Sex' does not mean 'Let's watch Porn'! - 7 Aug 14
‘Let’s talk about Sex’ does not mean ‘Let’s watch Porn’! – 7 Aug 14
Swami Balendu describes the narrow-minded, sick mentality of many Indians that think of anything that ... Read More
I love sex – and I feel good about it! - 6 Aug 14
I love sex – and I feel good about it! – 6 Aug 14
Swami Balendu describes the feelings of guilt and shame many people have when it comes ... Read More
Liberate yourself from Religion and be happy instead of waiting for Liberation after your Death! - 16 Jul 14
Liberate yourself from Religion and be happy instead of waiting for Liberation after your Death! – 16 Jul 14
Swami Balendu tells how Hindu philosophy makes people feel guilty of a sin they have ... Read More
The Dilemma of Followers: Knowing about the Crimes of a Guru but unable to accept it - 11 Sep 13
The Dilemma of Followers: Knowing about the Crimes of a Guru but unable to accept it – 11 Sep 13
Swami Balendu describes the situation of many followers after their guru's crimes have come out: ... Read More
When a Partner has lost his or her sexual Interest - 7 Apr 13
When a Partner has lost his or her sexual Interest – 7 Apr 13
Swami Balendu describes a series of individual sessions he had in 2005 about the private ... Read More
Shaming and blaming Rape Victims in a Society of sexual Purity - 14 Jan 13
Shaming and blaming Rape Victims in a Society of sexual Purity – 14 Jan 13
Swami Balendu writes about the wrong attitude of society when it comes to victims of ... Read More
Can you be honest while feeling guilty? - 23 Nov 12
Can you be honest while feeling guilty? – 23 Nov 12
Swami Balendu writes about surveys and how people reply differently if it is anonymous – ... Read More
Feeling Guilty for others won't help them - 24 Oct 12
Feeling Guilty for others won’t help them – 24 Oct 12
Swami Balendu describes situations in which people feel guilty for the actions of others. What ... Read More
Common Reason for a Break-Up and Divorce - Partner has Sex with others - 31 Jan 12
Common Reason for a Break-Up and Divorce – Partner has Sex with others – 31 Jan 12
Swami Balendu writes about people who cheat on their partner or spouse - in one-night ... Read More
Human Psychology - Aggressive Reaction when feeling guilty - 15 Dec 11
Human Psychology – Aggressive Reaction when feeling guilty – 15 Dec 11
Swami Balendu describes a natural reaction of people who feel guilty: when you mention a ... Read More
Religion creates Feelings of Guilt and Fear leading to psychological Problems - 14 Sep 11
Religion creates Feelings of Guilt and Fear leading to psychological Problems – 14 Sep 11
Swami Balendu describes how in Hinduism and Christianity religions create problems by making people feel ... Read More
Will God forgive your Sins if you pay Him some Money? - 8 Feb 11
Will God forgive your Sins if you pay Him some Money? – 8 Feb 11
Swami ji writes about donations given to temples and religious institutions in the attempt to ... Read More
Willpower for Stopping Cheating - 8 May 10
Willpower for Stopping Cheating – 8 May 10
Swami Ji writes about people having affairs with their boss and how you can stop ... Read More
Reactions - Denial and Guilt - 7 May 10
Reactions – Denial and Guilt – 7 May 10
Swami Ji writes how different people react on his diary entries about cheating. Some thank ... Read More
Cheating Rules - Only Sex with other Married Person - 3 May 10
Cheating Rules – Only Sex with other Married Person – 3 May 10
Swami ji writes about people who only have an affair when their lover is also ... Read More
Forgive Yourself and Leave Guilt Behind - 22 Dec 09
Forgive Yourself and Leave Guilt Behind – 22 Dec 09
Swami Ji writes about feelings of guilt which we create instead of forgiving ourselves ... Read More
Guilty Feelings, Mistakes and the Wish for Perfection - 21 Dec 09
Guilty Feelings, Mistakes and the Wish for Perfection – 21 Dec 09
Swami Ji writes about feelings of guilt which come from the wish of perfection. Everybody ... Read More
Overweight Problems even if you are not? - 28 Jul 09
Overweight Problems even if you are not? – 28 Jul 09
Swami Ji writes about people who think that they are overweight although they are not ... Read More
Learning to Say Yes - 8 Jun 09
Learning to Say Yes – 8 Jun 09
Swami Ji writes about the need of positivity and says that we actually need to ... Read More
Made a Mistake? Turn Around! - 28 Apr 09
Made a Mistake? Turn Around! – 28 Apr 09
Swami ji writes about ego which sometimes keeps people from being honest. And then it ... Read More
Compromising with your Honesty? - 27 Apr 09
Compromising with your Honesty? – 27 Apr 09
Swami ji writes about compromises and being honest. Live honestly with your values and principles, ... Read More
Money and Spiritual Work fit together! - 20 Feb 09
Money and Spiritual Work fit together! – 20 Feb 09
Swami ji writes about money and spirituality and why it is not anything bad to ... Read More