Don’t base your Self-Esteem on your Habit of controlling others! – 16 Sep 16
Swami Balendu describes how it can make control freaks feel bad about themselves when they try to stop controlling others – because they think they are only valuable if they control others!
Don’t make yourself smaller than you are – and accept an honest Compliment! – 26 Nov 15
Swami Balendu tells of a friend who received a compliment – but absolutely didn't believe that it could be true, which was expressed in one simple answer!
Dear Yoga Teachers, don’t make Yoga more difficult than it is – 1 Oct 15
Swami Balendu tells yoga teachers – and every other reader in general – to make things easy instead of difficult. It will help them as well as their students and people around them.
The Role of Ideals in your Life – and why you don’t need them as an Adult – 5 Feb 15
Swami Balendu writes about the development of ideals in life from birth until adulthood.
Right or wrong – Perception or Fact – 5 Nov 14
Swami Balendu writes about the big question: Am I doing the right thing? A thought that can appear in any area of life!
Maintain your Self-Esteem, even if it is difficult! – 4 Sep 14
Swami Balendu tells of situations when it is difficult to love yourself – and how you can nevertheless manage.
If you love yourself, don’t sell your Work under Value – 3 Sep 14
Swami Balendu talks about businesses in which people are sometimes expected to work for very little or no money. Read why you should not do that if you are in such a profession.
Stop loving your Illness more than your Health! – 5 May 14
Swami Balendu writes about people who like being and staying ill – and describes another possibility!
Creating Adults with Self-Esteem – Teach your Children to say ‘No’! – 14 Apr 14
Swami Balendu describes a situation for which he wants to teach his daughter to say 'No' when someone comes closer than she is comfortable with.