Tag: Marriage
The Consequences of domestic Violence and arranged Marriage – 10 Jun 16
Swami Balendu tells how domestic violence, especially in arranged marriages, affects children and young people ... Read More
Do Westerners divorce too easily or do Indians stick around too long? – 17 Mar 16
Swami Balendu tells how an Indian lady gave marriage advice to Ramona: don't leave your ... Read More
Marriage is a Bond of Love – Kids prove that Gender doesn’t matter! – 15 Mar 16
Swami Balendu tells of an incident when his daughter very clearly showed that for her, ... Read More
Marriage and Relationship – a difficult Concept for a 4-year-old! – 7 Mar 16
Swami Balendu tells how his daughter Apra learned about the concept of relationship and marriage ... Read More
Life for Women in India is changing – but not where it is needed the most! – 14 Jan 16
Swami Balendu writes about India's metropolitan cities where one might think that modern life has ... Read More
Leave old Times behind – ‘No Sex before Wedding’ is a Moral of the Past – 13 Jan 16
Swami Balendu tells how a lot of moral values have their base in outdated, old ... Read More
When your Mother-in-Law maintains your Period Calendar after your Wedding – 11 Jan 16
Swami Balendu writes about the pressure that Indian society, families and in-laws put on young ... Read More
When Women accept their Husbands’ extramarital Affairs – 7 Dec 15
Swami Balendu describes the situation of women in India as well as in the west, ... Read More
I am a pervert because I am married, am called Swami and talk about Sex – 10 May 15
Swami Balendu tells about a comment on his blog in which he was called a ... Read More
Rape within Marriage doesn’t exist in India because of the Institution’s Divinity – 6 May 15
Swami Balendu tells of the ridiculous statement of a minister who said in India no ... Read More
Husband, Wife and Lover – and ten Men solving their Problem – 8 Apr 15
Swami Balendu describes how marriage problems are solved in many areas of India: by talking ... Read More
Divorce is not an Option – not even when Husband and Wife only have Sex with other People! – 6 Apr 15
Swami Balendu describes the situation of a couple who has nothing that keeps them together, ... Read More
Social and religious Reasons that keep Indian Women in abusive Relationships – 2 Dec 14
Swami Balendu explains why many Indian women stay in relationships that are not good for ... Read More
When we prevented a minor Girl’s Marriage – 10 Apr 14
Swami Balendu tells of Pooja, a fifteen-year-old girl of his school whose parents wanted to ... Read More
Honeymoon Couple and Blog Readers – A wonderful Meeting at the Ashram – 10 Feb 14
Swami Balendu describes the meeting with a young newlywed couple at the Ashram who were ... Read More
What do Bride and Groom feel at their arranged Wedding? – 2 Dec 13
Swami Balendu answers the popular question of people unaccustomed to arranged marriages: what does the ... Read More
The big Question at an Indian Wedding: are they marrying a Stranger? – 28 Nov 13
Swami Balendu describes how especially westerners are always curious whether the Indian wedding they are ... Read More
Indian Fairytale Weddings – not so much Fun for Bride and Groom – 27 Nov 13
Swami Balendu answers some more questions that Westerners may ask at Indian weddings, especially about ... Read More
The Indian Wedding Setup through the Eyes of a Westerner – 26 Nov 13
Swami Balendu describes a typical Indian wedding, the hall, the food, the guests, as his ... Read More
Indian Hospitality makes sure non-Indian Guests get the Chance to attend Indian Weddings – 25 Nov 13
Swami Balendu describes how Ashram guests often get to join the family for wedding parties ... Read More
Opposites attract – so why arrange a Marriage within a Subcaste? – 22 Oct 13
Swami Balendu puts up the question why Indians arrange marriage within the same subcaste even ... Read More
My German Friends’ Wedding at the Ashram – 14 Jul 13
Swami Balendu describes how his friends had the idea to get married at his Ashram ... Read More
Unshaped Love – 25 Jun 13
Swami Balendu writes about love, its boundaries and its freedom ... Read More
A spiritual Wedding for free – but only with expensive Dresses from the Guru’s Shop – 9 Jun 13
Swami Balendu describes how a friend had a spiritual wedding performed by a guru. It ... Read More
Are you ready to accept the Death of your Children to save your Traditions? – 15 May 13
Swami Balendu writes about the tragic suicides that happen because children are in desperate situations, ... Read More
Whom did western People blame when their Children refused arranged Marriages? – 9 May 13
Swami Balendu explains to traditionalist Indians that arranged marriage is not only an Indian part ... Read More
The immoral Game of Approval and Rejection while arranging a Marriage – 8 May 13
Swami Balendu describes how men and women get rejected when families select partners for arranged ... Read More
Why Divorce is too difficult in India and too easy in the West – 7 May 13
Swami Balendu describes why many people hesitate getting divorced in India although there are big ... Read More
Married Couples hiding their Problems behind a Mask of Happiness – 6 May 13
Swami Balendu describes how people in India and also in the west show a fake ... Read More
India’s High Class – Divorces prevented by Fear of losing Reputation – 3 May 13
Swami Balendu writes about couples of the high class of India. They make their wedding ... Read More
Middle Class Girls in India – You cannot divorce after saving so hard for your Wedding! – 2 May 13
Swami Balendu describes the reasons for Indian women of the middle class to stay in ... Read More
Lower Class Girls in India – Difficult to afford a Dowry and impossible to get a Divorce! – 1 May 13
Swami Balendu describes how difficult it is for girls of India's lower class first of ... Read More
