Tag: Expectations
Leave old Times behind – ‘No Sex before Wedding’ is a Moral of the Past – 13 Jan 16
Swami Balendu tells how a lot of moral values have their base in outdated, old ... Read More
The horrible Consequences of Pressuring Women to bear Children – 12 Jan 16
Swami Balendu describes how in India, women are pressurized for having children once they are ... Read More
When your Mother-in-Law maintains your Period Calendar after your Wedding – 11 Jan 16
Swami Balendu writes about the pressure that Indian society, families and in-laws put on young ... Read More
Are you an Indian Man having online Sex Talk with western Women? Read this! – 17 Jun 15
Swami Balendu writes an appeal to Indian men who are not serious about the talk ... Read More
Our Work with Ayurveda doesn’t include Energy Work – 29 Sep 14
Swami Balendu explains that they cannot cater to expectations of people who want to learn ... Read More
Planting the Seeds of Depression and Burn-out in our Children – 2 Apr 14
Swami Balendu explains how we give our children more and more psychological problems by the ... Read More
What to do when your Friendship doesn’t go deep due to different Beliefs and Interests – 17 Dec 13
Swami Balendu describes how you can keep a friendship even if your interests are completely ... Read More
Not invited to a Friend’s Party – why I believe that’s fully fine! – 23 Oct 13
Swami Balendu tells about the reason a friend gave for not having invited him to ... Read More
Don’t expect more of yourself than your Natural Limits allow – 15 Oct 13
Swami Balendu describes how there are limits to what you can expect of yourself and ... Read More
Check yourself if you are compatible with us before you come! – 28 May 13
Swami Balendu describes an experience with a guest who was not a good fit for ... Read More
Why do Indians have so many Expectations on their Women? – 23 Apr 13
Swami Balendu copies the statement of his wife into his blog, describing her experience with ... Read More
Can you measure someone’s Level of Consciousness by the Length of his Meditation? – 4 Apr 13
Swami Balendu describes the consequences of a question to him: how many hours meditation do ... Read More
If I have Sex with several People, it is Romance – if you do the same, it is cheating! – 28 Feb 13
Swami Balendu describes the double standards that many people have for themselves and others, especially ... Read More
Don’t stop expecting – but learn from Disappointments! – 25 Feb 13
Swami Balendu explains why he doesn't believe in the popular advice to 'stop expectations'. Read ... Read More
Ignoring Expectations for religious Rituals after the Death of my Mother – 26 Dec 12
Swami Balendu describes the last rites for his mother and explains which rituals they did ... Read More
Filter the People in your Life and make them and yourself happy! – 29 Nov 12
Swami Balendu writes about people with expectations in your life whom you should filter in ... Read More
Experiencing the Ashram without wrong Expectations – 11 Oct 12
Swami Balendu describes what you can expect when you come to his Ashram versus what ... Read More
Approaching a future Friend does not work with Expectations – 5 Sep 12
Swami Balendu gives advice on how you can make friends without shooing them away with ... Read More
Value your Time, Effort and yourself – don’t let others take Advantage of you! – 23 May 12
Swami Balendu describes situations when people who are close to you take advantage of you ... Read More
Expectations make the Difference in between Customers and Friends – 18 May 12
Swami Balendu writes about expectations and explains how customers leave when you change while some ... Read More
Is it wrong for old People to have financial Expectations from their children? – 22 Mar 12
Swami Balendu writes about the last time in life and the question whether children should ... Read More
Not a Doctor? Parents’ Expectations and the Pressure they create – 21 Mar 12
Swami Balendu writes about parents who try to force their ideas of the future onto ... Read More
What if your Life is not how you thought it would be? – 20 Mar 12
Swami Balendu describes the most common expectations on our life and tells why we have ... Read More
Real Sewa – Making yourself happy while helping others without Expectations – 21 Feb 12
Swami Balendu writes about the difference in between Sewa and Naukri, a simple job. Read ... Read More
Don’t get stressed in the Preparations of your Family’s Christmas Celebration – 22 Dec 11
Swami Balendu describes why people get stressed on Christmas when the whole family comes together ... Read More
Finding a Relation not to be as close and loving as I thought – 4 Dec 11
Swami Balendu tells how in 2002 he found out about the financial expectations that a ... Read More
Express yourself – even about disappointed Expectations – 29 Nov 11
Swami Balendu writes about expectations in loving relations like friendships, relationships and family. Expressing a ... Read More
Enjoy Ashram Life – Make an Experience without Expectations – 25 Nov 11
Swami Balendu explains the best attitude to come to the Ashram with: free of expectations, ... Read More
Unnecessary Expectations and Doubts can give you and us an unpleasant Experience – 9 Nov 11
Swami Balendu describes which kind of expectations visitors sometimes have that make both sides uncomfortable ... Read More
Positive Effects of Spiritual Healing – 8 May 11
Swami Ji describes how he gave spiritual healing in the year 2001, when he did ... Read More
