Swami Balendu describes how disgusting it is that many Indians spit out their Gutka, a mix of betel nut and tobacco – even within closed rooms!
When the Birth of a Child is not a Reason for Joy: the seventh Daughter – 18 Aug 16
Swami Balendu tells of a family whose seventh daughter was born – because the mother wants to have a son!
Why a four-year-old is trained to feel ashamed when being naked in India – 5 Jul 16
Swami Balendu tells how several people in Indian have called ‘Shame!’ upon seeing his small daughter Apra walking naked or even only half-naked in their own home.
My Experience with Indian Food-Lovers and their Advice – 1 Jul 16
Swami Balendu describes how Indians are real foodies who always have a suggestion on how a dish could be even better. Read his personal experience.
The Consequences of domestic Violence and arranged Marriage – 10 Jun 16
Swami Balendu tells how domestic violence, especially in arranged marriages, affects children and young people in India. Read about the fear that is created – and what this means for them on the long run!
Indians hit their Children in public Places – and don’t feel guilty about it! – 8 Jun 16
Swami Balendu describes how he daily sees people hitting their children in their restaurant – and how this is part of Indian culture.
How an Indian Girl walked away when offered the Job of a Waitress – 4 May 16
Swami Balendu describes how a girl came to apply for ‘any kind of work’ but then refused that of a waitress. Read how this attitude doesn’t fit with their restaurant.
Do Westerners divorce too easily or do Indians stick around too long? – 17 Mar 16
Swami Balendu tells how an Indian lady gave marriage advice to Ramona: don’t leave your husband, that’s now what Indians do! Read the thoughts that followed this conversation!
Looking healthy, being overweight and Size Zero – Differences in Beauty Ideals in India – 10 Mar 16
Swami Balendu describes beauty ideals in India, how women comment on each other’s weight and what India needs to do to help people stay fit.
If you are in India, plan with ‘Indian Standard Time’! – 16 Feb 16
Swami Balendu writes about the joys of planning in India: when you cannot be sure the other one will be there are the agreed time and when you can be late, too!