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Sex Education for Boys clears Myths around Masturbation and Wet Dreams – 7 Apr 11

Yesterday I already mentioned that I believe that sex education is a good and necessary part in the education of our children. Let me explain a little bit more about this point and which benefits the next generation will have from sex education.

The main point is of course that sex will no longer be a taboo. It is a fully natural impulse, as I have stated already many times in my diary and should neither be suppressed nor declared that it is something embarrassing, something you need to be ashamed of or even something that is sinful. Of course everybody has different ideas as to how you behave morally correct when sexuality is concerned but not talking about it and pretending that sexuality doesn’t exist is not the right way to teach morals, either.

We should encourage the next generation to talk about it. Parents can talk with their children about the development of their body, about sexual feelings, the attraction to the other gender and the innocent question of children from where they are coming. They can get their answer according to their age. Additional information will be taught in school, where teachers tell whatever mum and dad did not know about this topic yet. If today’s teen is educated in this way, they can educate their children when they grow up.

If a teenager knows more about sexuality, there are so many bad factors that can be avoided. I already mentioned yesterday that boys would not think anymore that discharge in night is a disease. People in the west may laugh about this idea but in India it is a common misunderstanding which is even further advertised by charlatan doctors selling medicine against it. I have written before about it, how they advertise in newspapers for curing this ‘problem’ which is simply just a natural development. Wet dreams are presented as a disease with horrible consequences for the future and young men spend a lot of money on this fake medicine. If boys learn that having a few wet dreams does not mean they are ill, they will not be cheated by such fake doctors anymore! If they learn that it has been scientifically proved that masturbation does not make blind, does not reduce your potency and does not make you impotent, they will not anymore feel guilty, ashamed and afraid that ‘sins of their childhood’ could have a bad effect on their married lives.

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The advertisement above is in Hindi and for those who cannot read it, I want to give you a translation of the main parts: “Japanese Penis Enlargement Machine – only 100 Rupees! Instant Effect!” is the headline and it reads on “If your penis is small, thin or not straight, make it eight to nine inch longer, thicker, solid, in good shape and increase your sex time 30 to 40 minutes. Premature ejaculation, wet dreams, impotency, infertility and absence of sperm will be cured 100%. Money back guarantee.”

In India in local newspapers I daily see how people advertise instruments and pills that help to increase penis size, length and girth. They even write ‘made with Japanese technology’. Sometimes it is German technology, too, although I have never seen any such instrument being sold in Germany. Obviously those people have business, otherwise they would not have money to place these advertisements in newspapers. And their target group is not fully uneducated people! Those who cannot read or write would not ever see this advertisement! No, it is people who have been to school and learned reading and writing, who have interest in reading the news and seeing what is going in this world! They read and some of them become buyers and customers! With sex education, boys and young men would learn that everybody’s body is different and that it is impossible – and even not desirable – to increase the length of your penis another eight to ten inches and the girth another three to four inches!

I tell you, this psychological change can have great effects, boost their self-esteem and make them more self-confident. It gives them a better natural feeling of their body and they can accept their sexuality. Sex education will thus teach them that they can have a healthy and happy life with their wife or partner, without regret.

So today I concentrated only on the benefits of sex education for boys and men. Tomorrow will be the day for girls’ and women’s benefits!

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This Post Has 4 Comments

  1. Christine Salzmann

    Aeh…I am not sure whether I am shocked or amused…maybe both! Hilarious advertisement with money-back guarantee! But sad to know that people still believe in this!

  2. Marc

    It may not be the very poor whom these advertisers target but also not the really educated people. You yourself and your family will not believe in this, would they? Everybody who has passed 12 or 13 years of schooling knows that it is impossible to enlarge your penis that much.
    It is, as I see the issue, rather meant to attract school drop-outs, those who did not finish their schooling and who are now in minor jobs, sometimes also labouring.
    They would not know too much about those things and as they regard such information as important and right, they of course consider buying such a thing.

  3. Ramona

    Marc, while it may be true that people who did courses at university are more educated and may know that physically such enlargement is not possible, there are still those very common myths about wet dreams and masturbation. And nobody talks about such things, so also educated people can believe this.In any case I believe we have to educate everyone, also that target group that you mention and let them know that those ideas are not true. If such sex education really took place, also the high-school drop-outs would laugh about such advertisement

  4. Emily

    It really pains me that these doctors would manipulate the minds of these young and innocent boys. How could they feel good about the money they are making based on lies and fear? I really hope sex education is promoted and successful in India. All boys and girls deserve to learn about their bodies and their sexuality so that they can express it in a healthy way. Again… this will most likely decrease sexual abuse and rape.

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