When I write like how I did in the last days, about relationships, freedom and ego, I receive many responses which is very nice. I am happy if I can help you by expressing my thoughts. One person wrote to me and said she read my diary entry and then paid more attention on how she said ‘my’, ‘your’ or ‘our’ in their relationship. Then she realized that somehow she always referred to ‘my’ children. She wrote a funny email and I had to laugh. Of course you cannot say ‘my’ or ‘your’, it will always be ‘our’. Even if you wanted, you cannot do it alone, it is not possible.
Ramona and I talked about the following sentence: Mine/our relationship is perfect.
When I said that I will write this in my diary today, Ramona frowned. I asked her ‘Why, don’t you want to write that? Don’t you think it is perfect?’ She answered ‘yes, but people might say you are arrogant…’ I told her that I didn’t think so because this is not only what I think for our relation, it is what I wish for every couple to feel! Every man and woman who are living together in whichever way they decided to be together, should have this thought and say aloud ‘Our relationship is perfect’. I wish for everyone to have this feeling of being only in love and happiness
I don’t want to say with this that your relationship should be exactly like mine. That would not be possible because you are another person. But I wish you that you say about your relationship: it is perfect, I am happy and my partner is happy. We are honestly in love!
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Thanks Swami Ji. I hope for perfection in relationships too. Perfection through letting go and just loving each other.
It is amazing how much a choice to change your thoughts can affect your relationship in a positive way. Our minds can be very helpful to us.
Yes, Our children are beautiful. Our children fall and get hurt. Our children love us.
Ya’ll are so cute. Really.
The definition of perfect doesn’t have to mean no flaws whatsoever. But it is the flaws, challenges, joys, and love all wrapped up into one that make perfection.
I love that picture of you two!!
Everyone should decide in which way he wants to lead his relationship. Whatever makes us feel happy should be done. And of course it is so nice and amazing when a couple can say “our relationship is perfect”. I didn’t hear a lot of people saying this.