Today I would like to write a few lines about the beauty of that relationship with the one person whom you let closest to your heart or deepest within your heart: your partner, your spouse, your lover, your wife or husband, boyfriend or girlfriend. It is the only relation, at least that I know of, where you can be absolutely naked in front of the other one.
Obviously, I am not speaking of physical nudity. Of course, I think you should be able to be naked in front of each other but you may not mind that in front of certain other people as well. No, I am talking about all your deepest inner thoughts and feelings, those which you would hesitate to be as free about even with your parents, siblings and best friends. In the love of this other one, you are able to just completely let go.
Yes, I believe that you can show whoever you really are, until the smallest particle of your soul, to this one person with whom you are connected through a bond of love. In order to do that, you have to kill your ego. Not once but over and over again. In front of the other person, there can be nothing left. You don’t need to hold back in fear that your ego will get hurt because the other one knows you completely, including your strength and weakness, and of course your ego! So once you drop that as well, once even your ego is destructed, you are like a tiny baby in the hands of the other one, naked and fragile, but safe. You are safe and secure with everything you are.
This is the most beautiful feeling you can have!
You know that you can say something stupid and there will still be love.
You know that you can tell something you would be ashamed to share with anyone else but there will still be love.
You know that you can show even anger that is deep inside and the other one will accept it, stand through it and still love you.
You know you can tell about your fears and the other one will hug you, protect you and just hold you in his loving arms at times when you are most afraid.
You know that you can share your regrets and the other one will just listen, acknowledge them and take a part of the burden for you.
You know that there will be love, whatever will come.
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you are a pervert , married person has no right call himself Swami , why you are using “siyaram” in website name? its misleading , most of your articles are about sex
Hello Pervert,
I believe your name is not really ‘Pervert’ but that’s what you wrote in the field asking for your name.
Actually, this blog entry was in no way about sex – but nevertheless we replied to your comment in this post: I am a pervert because I am married, am called Swami and talk about Sex – 10 May 15
Have a great day!