I told you two days ago that we had a honeymoon couple at the Ashram last week and I enjoyed having a talk with them. Among the topics that we talked about, there was one which is obviously interesting for a newlywed couple: relationships. They asked about my relationship with Ramona – and I gladly told them about our love and happiness!
They started with a question: What do you see as your achievement in your relationship with Ramona?
I told them have we have not been apart from each other for even one night. We have always been together, since we started travelling together and wherever we go, we go together. We eat together, we always sleep in one bed, we even mostly shower together – and with mostly I mean except the four times a year when Apra just doesn’t want to shower but play with only either one of us and nobody else.
They were amazed and asked the question that many people automatically ask when they hear how close we are to each other: Don’t you ever have any problems? No arguments, no fights?
I can honestly and proudly say that no, we don’t have any problems. Sometimes we do have different opinions but it is and stays just that: a difference of opinion. She likes pasta and I don’t. I like cardamom in sweets and she doesn’t. Differences are natural and normal.
So how do you deal with different opinions?
Well, then she has pasta on the plate and I eat those sweets from the same plate. I don’t complain about her having the pasta and she takes care not to mix it into my food. She doesn’t complain that I eat sweets with cardamom and I take care that there is some sweet for her as well.
If there is such a topic on which we don’t agree, we talk about it, we maybe argue but it never lasts longer than five minutes and then we finish the topic. We don’t shout and yell at each other, we don’t keep anything in our hearts. Whatever disturbs one of us, we tell it to the other one. Just sharing what you feel and having the other one listen, accept it and maybe even simply say that he feels different makes you feel good. In the end we know that we will accept the other one whatever he thinks, does and says.
It is so inspiring – you are from so different cultures! Your love is a great example for us!
Nice!
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Its so amazingly inspiring. I want to emulate, may be need counselling. As I told, we plan to have at least 24 hour stay at your Ashram if I could convince my wife. In the meantime, Please do nor forget to call at our house in case you happen to be in and around Faridabad. Since I am older, let me say, my genuine blessings to you, Ramona
You are always welcome 🙂 just let us know about your coming. Thank you for your love and blessings.