Life gets easy if you take it easy! – 16 Apr 15

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The day before yesterday I wrote about people who intentionally make even small and easy things difficult. Yesterday I described those who really and honestly believe that all those things are difficult. Today I would like to talk about those who take life and its changes in the complete opposite way: those who take it easy.

Taking it easy is the correct expression for this: these people really don’t take anything hard. When things are easy, they are easy anyway and they realize them as such and treat them accordingly. An easy task remains an easy task, in their execution of said task and their representation of it.

Now here is the important part however: they even take difficult tasks easy! If there is a problem, they can be aware of it and equally aware of the fact that it won’t be an easy problem to fix. They can analyze the obstacles but they don’t shy away from trying to solve the issue and they also don’t despair before even starting. They don’t tell everyone how difficult it will be but on the contrary encourage all others to do it, convincing them that it will probably work out just fine.

If you have a new plan, they can be very enthusiastic about it. They will envision every detail with you, give you hundreds of new ideas – some of which may not be very realistic because they are overly optimistic – and they are more than happy to share all of their plans with you, too, even if they will never come into execution.

This can be the one disadvantage when talking to these wonderfully positive people: they are sometimes a bit too overconfident and sometimes a bit unrealistic. They go for the stars – but sometimes fail to see that it is just not possible. The nice thing about it? They won’t mind much if one of their ideas doesn’t work out because they have the next five ideas ready to start with!

All in all, these are the people with whom spending time is the most pleasant! They don’t believe in taking tension and pressure and while a more negative person criticizes them for taking things too light, they actually get things done. And they get it done while enjoying life at the same time!

This is what I believe is the best character trait about these people: by taking things easy, they have so much more chances to enjoy life, to live in the moment and not worry about all the difficulties they have to face! So I want to invite you to be a bit more like them. You don’t need to shout hooray about everything right now but just try to be more positive about things! Don’t let it get you down if a plan seems difficult or if an obstacle occurs. That’s what life is about – living! When it is easy or difficult. So get up, stop contemplating and start living!

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