Category: Psychology

Don’t base your Self-Esteem on your Habit of controlling others! – 16 Sep 16
Swami Balendu describes how it can make control freaks feel bad about themselves when they ... Read More

The Chemistry of Advice and personal Experience – 1 Aug 16
Swami Balendu explains how advice is always also autobiographical – which is why you cannot ... Read More

Why you should not try to be perfect – 24 Feb 16
Swami Balendu explains how your perfectionism can actually harm you. Read about mistakes, lessons for ... Read More

When Women accept their Husbands’ extramarital Affairs – 7 Dec 15
Swami Balendu describes the situation of women in India as well as in the west, ... Read More

What to do when things are not according to your ideals – 24 Nov 15
Swami Balendu describes what you should do when you have strong ideals and feel like ... Read More

What to do if insecure People want to put you down – 18 Nov 15
Swami Balendu describes a type of person who is basically insecure and satisfies his or ... Read More

How to deal with the Knowledge that you won’t be alive much longer – 28 Oct 15
Swami Balendu writes about life-threatening diseases and handicaps, how to deal with the news of ... Read More

Dealing with Difficulties – afraid or ready to take them on? – 26 Oct 15
Swami Balendu tells how your cultural background can give you a different reaction to difficulties ... Read More

Your Perception changes your World – 21 Oct 15
Swami Balendu describes how your upbringing, culture and situation influence your point of view – ... Read More

Contribute in your own, small Way – it does make a Difference! – 6 Oct 15
Swami Balendu encourages people to do good on their own level instead of getting depressed ... Read More

Please don’t feel guilty for enjoying yourself! – 5 Oct 15
Swami Balendu tells why you should do things you really want to do without having ... Read More

Life gets easy if you take it easy! – 16 Apr 15
Swami Balendu writes about people who see easy things as they are and take difficult ... Read More

Please read if just everything seems difficult to you – 15 Apr 15
Swami Balendu writes about people who honestly think that every new plan and every change ... Read More

Please read if you also pretend that easy Things are difficult – 14 Apr 15
Swami Balendu describes people who present every small and easy thing as a huge task, ... Read More

Accepting Changes and valuing our Happiness – 24 Mar 15
Swami Balendu describes how people get upset about changes from outside and give up their ... Read More