Most of our physical problems have their root in our psyche. When we work on our mental problems, we can often see how suddenly physical problems are solved.
In his blog Balendu describes cases of his individual sessions in which he uses psychological methods to find the root of the problem.
Category: Psychology
Don’t base your Self-Esteem on your Habit of controlling others! – 16 Sep 16
Swami Balendu describes how it can make control freaks feel bad about themselves when they ... Read More
The Chemistry of Advice and personal Experience – 1 Aug 16
Swami Balendu explains how advice is always also autobiographical – which is why you cannot ... Read More
Why you should not try to be perfect – 24 Feb 16
Swami Balendu explains how your perfectionism can actually harm you. Read about mistakes, lessons for ... Read More
When Women accept their Husbands’ extramarital Affairs – 7 Dec 15
Swami Balendu describes the situation of women in India as well as in the west, ... Read More
What to do when things are not according to your ideals – 24 Nov 15
Swami Balendu describes what you should do when you have strong ideals and feel like ... Read More
What to do if insecure People want to put you down – 18 Nov 15
Swami Balendu describes a type of person who is basically insecure and satisfies his or ... Read More
How to deal with the Knowledge that you won’t be alive much longer – 28 Oct 15
Swami Balendu writes about life-threatening diseases and handicaps, how to deal with the news of ... Read More
Dealing with Difficulties – afraid or ready to take them on? – 26 Oct 15
Swami Balendu tells how your cultural background can give you a different reaction to difficulties ... Read More
Your Perception changes your World – 21 Oct 15
Swami Balendu describes how your upbringing, culture and situation influence your point of view – ... Read More
Contribute in your own, small Way – it does make a Difference! – 6 Oct 15
Swami Balendu encourages people to do good on their own level instead of getting depressed ... Read More
Please don’t feel guilty for enjoying yourself! – 5 Oct 15
Swami Balendu tells why you should do things you really want to do without having ... Read More
Life gets easy if you take it easy! – 16 Apr 15
Swami Balendu writes about people who see easy things as they are and take difficult ... Read More
Please read if just everything seems difficult to you – 15 Apr 15
Swami Balendu writes about people who honestly think that every new plan and every change ... Read More
Please read if you also pretend that easy Things are difficult – 14 Apr 15
Swami Balendu describes people who present every small and easy thing as a huge task, ... Read More
Accepting Changes and valuing our Happiness – 24 Mar 15
Swami Balendu describes how people get upset about changes from outside and give up their ... Read More
Being Ambitious is good – but don’t be selfish – 3 Mar 15
Swami Balendu tells why he cannot say ambitions are bad. Read about the benefits and ... Read More
Always be where you are needed – and leave when you are not – 10 Jul 12
Swami Balendu writes about a good basic principle for your life to have respect and ... Read More
Don’t try to convince others – they have to make their own Experience – 15 Jun 12
Swami Balendu explains why you cannot convince others in an online discussion, by writing something ... Read More
Don’t take everything personal! – 20 Dec 11
Swami Balendu writes about people who get offended often in normal conversations because they take ... Read More
No Culture or Country is perfect – don’t feel offended by Criticism – 16 Dec 11
Swami Balendu talks about a realistic view on your own culture, country and society. Accept ... Read More
Human Psychology – Aggressive Reaction when feeling guilty – 15 Dec 11
Swami Balendu describes a natural reaction of people who feel guilty: when you mention a ... Read More
The Ego of Being Perfect – 5 Dec 10
Swami Ji writes how our ego can be in our way when we believe that ... Read More
Perfectionism is Perfect if there is no Comparison – 4 Dec 10
Swami Ji writes about perfectionism which is actually usual in every one of us. The ... Read More
Perfectionism is not a Perfect Idea – 30 Oct 10
Swami ji writes about perfectionism and why it keeps you from becoming better and improving ... Read More
Attention Seekers Get Healed by not Getting Attention – 16 Aug 10
Swami Ji writes about people who cry for no reason in order to get attention ... Read More
Suicidal Thoughts while Driving Car – 15 May 10
Swami Ji writes about a woman who always wants to steer her car into traffic ... Read More
Change has to Start with You! – 6 May 09
Swami Ji writes that you should not try changing other people if you cannot change ... Read More
Teenagers Killing Others – what is the Reason? – 12 Mar 09
Swami ji speaks about the tragic incidents in Germany and the US where young boys ... Read More
Do you Enjoy being a Victim? – 24 Feb 09
Swami ji writes about people who like to be victims and because of that do ... Read More
Women: Live your Female Creating and Nourishing Energy! – 23 Jan 09
Swami ji writes about women in this society who have lost their female side in ... Read More
Conditioning with Love – Feeling Guilty when not Fitting in – 21 Dec 08
Swami Ji writes about patterns of thinking from the childhood which can create inferiority complexes ... Read More
