Be Flexible – Times Change, Change with them – 11 May 09

You are currently viewing Be Flexible – Times Change, Change with them – 11 May 09

Yesterday I talked about change and how everything changes with time. So many things change and often we need to go with the change. It doesn’t make sense to stick with old customs if it is only for the sake of tradition.

I give you one example: I already wrote about Sadhus, spiritual men in India, who are traveling all the time and who do not want to get attached with anybody or any place. They are always traveling but in the monsoon time they stay at one place. For four months they are in one place and this has become a tradition. Why are they at one place? Because in that time when this tradition or rule was made the streets were just earth and sand and in monsoon time it was just impossible to walk and travel as Sadhus normally do.

It was just not possible and this is how these four months became the traditional time for them for staying at one place. But I would say that nowadays this rule doesn’t make sense anymore. There are wonderful streets and different ways of transport. Maybe you could not go in that time with your wagon but now you can go by car in monsoon time. Times changed and instead of just following this rule without thinking you should think about it why this rule exists. And then you see that it doesn’t make sense anymore today.

I also say that I am living a kind of Sadhu life, always traveling. And now I am also traveling with airplane. Imagine I had to stay at one place now for the summer time here in Europe just because there is this rule. Here is no monsoon and no reason not to travel. Places and times change and we need to keep this flexibility in our mind that we can leave old rules and traditions behind.

Related posts

A Call for open Communication - because it helps! - 19 Oct 16

A Call for open Communication – because it helps! – 19 Oct 16

Swami Balendu tells why it is important to communicate openly and without prejudice. Read more on this way of taking ...
Preaching equal Money for all while sitting on your Couch? - 25 Nov 15

Preaching equal Money for all while sitting on your Couch? – 25 Nov 15

Swami Balendu elaborates on the idea of a guest at the Ashram who believed that everyone should be equally paid, ...
The Trap of spiritual Seekers: an endless Search for an Illusion - 30 Jul 14

The Trap of spiritual Seekers: an endless Search for an Illusion – 30 Jul 14

Swami Balendu writes about the many people who fall into the trap of gurus, masters and religion: they are encouraged ...
Stop searching and you will find it - 29 Jul 14

Stop searching and you will find it – 29 Jul 14

Swami Balendu writes about people who call themselves 'seekers' and suggests them to stop searching in order to be happy ...
Only unsatisfied People ask for the Purpose of Life - 28 Jul 14

Only unsatisfied People ask for the Purpose of Life – 28 Jul 14

Swami Balendu describes a session he had with a man who was generally happy but was told that he should ...
Being an Atheist means... - 27 Jun 13

Being an Atheist means… – 27 Jun 13

Swami Balendu enumerates what atheists don't do opposed to what believers of different religions do. Read a list of interesting ...
Who am I? - Answering the most popular spiritual Question - 24 Jan 12

Who am I? – Answering the most popular spiritual Question – 24 Jan 12

Swami Balendu describes the search and journey of self-discovery, describes possible results and gives a tip as to how the ...
Why are Westerners fascinated by the Philosophy of Reincarnation? - 1 Dec 11

Why are Westerners fascinated by the Philosophy of Reincarnation? – 1 Dec 11

Swami Balendu explains the reasons for westerners to believe in the philosophy of reincarnation. Read and let him surprise you ...
Philosophy of Reincarnation forces you to live in Past or Future - 30 Nov 11

Philosophy of Reincarnation forces you to live in Past or Future – 30 Nov 11

Swami Balendu answers questions about his belief regarding reincarnation, special tasks on earth and his life as a guru before ...
Be Ready to Accept a Change for the Better! - 13 Apr 11

Be Ready to Accept a Change for the Better! – 13 Apr 11

Swami Ji describes how change in life takes place and why we need to be ready to go with the ...

This Post Has One Comment

  1. Graymon Ward

    This made me think about people that feel that respecting your elders means never questioning them, always assuming that they know best. Of course age does not determine someone’s wisdom, although it may effect it. In certain respects the older we get the more wisdom we may loose and vise versa. It always depends on the person. Respecting every living thing is a very very important practice, but that has nothing to do with blind submission.

Leave a Reply