In his blog about parenting Balendu writes about children and teenagers, their problems and conflicts and how to deal with them.

Whether you have problems in dealing with your teenagers because they smoke, drink and party or if you want to know how to raise small children with love in a world that seems full of negativity and anger.

Balendu writes with a comprehensive view on what parents deal with every day and what they would like their children or teenagers to become once they are adult. He gives suggestions on when to let them go and when you need to control them. Raising a child with love and understanding – not always as easy as it seems.

Category: Parenting

Don't steal your Children’s Childhood! - 30 Sep 16
Don’t steal your Children’s Childhood! – 30 Sep 16
Swami Balendu tells parents to let their children be children, to give them freedom and ... Read More
Let your Children make their own Mistakes - it helps them develop their potential! - 29 Sep 16
Let your Children make their own Mistakes – it helps them develop their potential! – 29 Sep 16
Swami Balendu explains why it is important not to shield your child from every mistake ... Read More
Daycare Center for your Child - and what is left for you? - 28 Sep 16
Daycare Center for your Child – and what is left for you? – 28 Sep 16
Swami Balendu writes about the lifestyle in big cities where children go to daycare centers ... Read More
Don't try to be a perfect Parent - 25 Feb 16
Don’t try to be a perfect Parent – 25 Feb 16
Swami Balendu suggests parents one thing: don't try to be a perfect father or mother ... Read More
Parents: ignore judging Looks or Comments - you know your Child best! - 23 Feb 16
Parents: ignore judging Looks or Comments – you know your Child best! – 23 Feb 16
Swami Balendu recommends parents how to deal with difficult situations, when others judge or at ... Read More
Don't lie to your Child - here is why! - 15 Feb 16
Don’t lie to your Child – here is why! – 15 Feb 16
Swami Balendu tells of an incident with his daughter where a staff member lied to ... Read More
How to treat other Children in front of yours - 18 Aug 15
How to treat other Children in front of yours – 18 Aug 15
Swami Balendu tells how your own child will always be special to you – but ... Read More
How constant Guidance can hinder the Development of your Child - 11 Aug 15
How constant Guidance can hinder the Development of your Child – 11 Aug 15
Swami Balendu explains how it is neither good to constantly tell your children what to ... Read More
Parenting Fun: having Difficulties, overcoming them and facing them again! - 22 Apr 15
Parenting Fun: having Difficulties, overcoming them and facing them again! – 22 Apr 15
Swami Balendu tells how his daughter's temper tantrums come in phases – and although one ... Read More
Keep your Children away from TV - it is dangerous for them! - 21 Apr 15
Keep your Children away from TV – it is dangerous for them! – 21 Apr 15
Swami Balendu explains why he thinks that watching TV – even channels made for children ... Read More
Keep your Children busy and off the TV – but not because they are a Burden for you! - 20 Apr 15
Keep your Children busy and off the TV – but not because they are a Burden for you! – 20 Apr 15
Swami Balendu describes a good idea with a bad execution and very bad advertisement! Read ... Read More
Why it is necessary to talk about Sex with your Children - 2 Apr 15
Why it is necessary to talk about Sex with your Children – 2 Apr 15
Swami Balendu tells about sex education that starts in the home and explains why in ... Read More
Why you should show your First-World Children less developed Countries - 12 Mar 15
Why you should show your First-World Children less developed Countries – 12 Mar 15
Swami Balendu explains why he thinks families with children from the developed world should make ... Read More
Bringing up Children without God - 24 Feb 15
Bringing up Children without God – 24 Feb 15
Swami Balendu describes a conversation that his wife had with his daughter and a boy ... Read More
Breastfeeding and Weaning in East and West - a Comparison - 27 Aug 14
Breastfeeding and Weaning in East and West – a Comparison – 27 Aug 14
Swami Balendu compares breastfeeding and weaning practices of Germany and India – read of working ... Read More
Take your Children serious - and talk to them! - 15 Jul 14
Take your Children serious – and talk to them! – 15 Jul 14
Swami Balendu describes how talking to his daughter helps her prepare herself for journeys and ... Read More
When a Doctor tells you to spend more Time with your Child - 8 Jul 14
When a Doctor tells you to spend more Time with your Child – 8 Jul 14
Swami Balendu tells of a child who did not speak even at the age of ... Read More
When and how to talk to Children about Sex - 23 Jun 14
When and how to talk to Children about Sex – 23 Jun 14
Swami Balendu tells what he answered in a lecture when a woman asked how and ... Read More
Parenting - when you see that Boundaries of Countries blur - 3 Jun 14
Parenting – when you see that Boundaries of Countries blur – 3 Jun 14
Swami Balendu describes how one cannot say anymore 'Indian' or 'western' for many ideas and ... Read More
Being a Parent - Expensive Boarding Schools vs. the loving Care of Parents - 2 Jun 14
Being a Parent – Expensive Boarding Schools vs. the loving Care of Parents – 2 Jun 14
Swami Balendu describes the trend of well-off parents to send their children to boarding schools ... Read More
Don't miss the precious Time with your Children - it will never come again! - 23 Apr 14
Don’t miss the precious Time with your Children – it will never come again! – 23 Apr 14
Swami Balendu describes how he realized that he should spend more time with Apra – ... Read More
The big Effect of your Words on Children - 22 Apr 14
The big Effect of your Words on Children – 22 Apr 14
Swami Balendu describes how he gave his daughter an exception for a very big rule ... Read More
Don't scare your Children! Let them know you will always be there! - 17 Apr 14
Don’t scare your Children! Let them know you will always be there! – 17 Apr 14
Swami Balendu tells why he doesn't like a particular way of Indians teasing their children ... Read More
Who likes getting touched by Strangers? - 15 Apr 14
Who likes getting touched by Strangers? – 15 Apr 14
Swami Balendu describes the possible reactions he and his wife talked about after strangers repeatedly ... Read More
Creating Adults with Self-Esteem - Teach your Children to say 'No'! - 14 Apr 14
Creating Adults with Self-Esteem – Teach your Children to say ‘No’! – 14 Apr 14
Swami Balendu describes a situation for which he wants to teach his daughter to say ... Read More
Violence in India - Loving and hitting your Dogs like your Children - 12 Mar 14
Violence in India – Loving and hitting your Dogs like your Children – 12 Mar 14
Swami Balendu describes how families in India treat their dogs like their children: hitting them ... Read More
How to deal with the violent Habits old People have towards Children - 11 Mar 14
How to deal with the violent Habits old People have towards Children – 11 Mar 14
Swami Balendu explains how it is often the elderly who hit children out of habit ... Read More
Fake Pride doesn't let Parents see the Damage of domestic Violence - 10 Mar 14
Fake Pride doesn’t let Parents see the Damage of domestic Violence – 10 Mar 14
Swami Balendu explains what he believes needs to change if the domestic violence against children ... Read More
Unexpected Cruelty: when Women beat their Children - 6 Mar 14
Unexpected Cruelty: when Women beat their Children – 6 Mar 14
Swami Balendu explains why it is wrong to think that it is always men who ... Read More
Non-violent Education: How to handle your Toddler's Tantrums with Love - 5 Mar 14
Non-violent Education: How to handle your Toddler’s Tantrums with Love – 5 Mar 14
Swami Balendu writes the third part of his series on how to educate a toddler ... Read More
Non-violent Education: Give your Children Explanations and non-violent Consequences - 4 Mar 14
Non-violent Education: Give your Children Explanations and non-violent Consequences – 4 Mar 14
Swami Balendu continues giving tips on how to raise one's children without violence. Read why ... Read More
Nonviolent Education: Children need Time, Attention and Communication - 3 Mar 14
Nonviolent Education: Children need Time, Attention and Communication – 3 Mar 14
Swami Balendu starts a series of blog entries with tips for raising your children without ... Read More
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