I would like to continue writing down what I said in the lecture about negative energy in our daily life. Maybe you should read yesterday's diary to have an idea what I said in the beginning.
The important thing is that you are aware of it. If you don't see how much dirt and negativity is there, it will get more and more. But if you see it, you can clean it. It comes, negativity comes and that is natural. You know, our mind is very much attracted by negativity. It sees it very quickly. That is also normal. Of course, when you bring your consciousness higher and higher, not that much negativity will come and affect you. But even if it comes, and it will, don't worry too much about it. Just remove it.
Another thing with this negativity is this: Many people say they are so sensitive and feel so disturbed by other people's negativity, they feel it immediately. Maybe not everybody feels it. They ask themselves why they feel that negativity and not everybody else. Why doesn't everybody feel it?
I give you an example: Who smokes and goes into a room in which 100 people were smoking the whole night like in a disco, he will be okay to be in that room. For him it does not matter because he is so used to it. But for somebody who does not smoke and goes into that room, it will be horrible. He will smell it immediately and will not want to be there long. A non-smoker is more sensitive about the smoke.
Just in the same way, when you are not in negativity, when you don't want negativity, when you are not used to negativity, then you are much more sensitive for that. Maybe for others it does not matter but because you have so much love and light in your heart, have a pure, white heart, you get very annoyed by this negativity. And you see who is already in that, if there is already negativity inside, they don't even feel it. The negativity does not matter for them. So those, who ask me these questions, they ask because they have such a pure heart full of positivity and love that they feel the negative energy is attacking them. And I see and analyze and compare it in this way because I never smoked and if I go into this smoky hall it will be horrible for me. But for a smoker it will be fine.
It is also in this way: The negativity does not attack negative people because they are already full of negativity. The negativity knows that they are already negative. The negativity attacks positive people and wants to make them negative, too. It will attack more Yogis, more spiritual people. It will not attack negative people because it knows, 'oh, he is already in my kingdom, is already my disciple. I have to go to this person, he is a Yogi, he is positive, I need him.' And as these pure people are not used to it, they are very sensitive for that. Maybe you ask why this is happening to you, not to your neighbour. Why do you get all these negative experiences and not your neighbour? Yes, because the negativity knows that your neighbour is already negative enough. That is why it comes to you!
Tomorrow I will write about what we can do against it. Today Eleonora and her daughters were here in the afternoon. One of them is still a baby. It is so nice to see such a young life growing so fast. In the evening Ann and Christy invited us for dinner to a Pizzeria because it is their last evening together with us. It was great food and just in front of the Italian restaurant there was an ice cafe in which we had a wonderful desert afterwards.
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I feel very sensitive to negativity as well. Both of my parents are negative in completely different ways, so I was raised to spot all kinds and types of negativity and adapt situations accordingly. Now I am trying not to be as affected by this, but I am conditioned to see it. Sometimes it comes in handy, sometimes it is overwhelming.
I had a friend who was so negative, nothing came out of her mouth that wasn’t negative, and she is one of the few people that I have kept distance from, because I am sensitive to it and it is all she could produce. it made me sad to force a distance between us. I wish now, several years later, that I had been better equipped to handle it.
I am sensitive to negativity. My mom was very negative and my dad was sensitive to it, I identify a lot with my dad and so I sensed when she was being negtive to him as well as when she was negative to me, and I remember knowing when she was going to be negative and preparing for it. Spotting the signs and getting ready. I’m trained to spot it, I can see it in everybody and it makes me a little crazy sometimes because when I see it coming I start preparing for it and with so much negativity out there I can be in a state of constant alertness that is really exhausting. It is important to be around people who don’t tip off the negativity meter in me in order to feel at peace. I also want to make peace with it as it cannot rightly hurt me.