Yesterday I told you about a girl and today I would like to tell you about this girl’s mother who was also there for a healing session. She told me that the girl’s father had run away years ago with a lot of money and that he could not be found anymore, not even by the police. So this is how she had to work very hard to raise her children and how she feels that it is too much for her as also has some health problems.
I said to the mother that she needed to forget the past. She should forget the man, she has lived twelve years without him now but she still regrets very much that he is not there to help her. I know it is hard work to raise a child and going to work and try to do everything in the right way. But why is the daughter missing the father? It is not him whom she is missing, she never met him. She thinks about her mother who is working so hard and thinks that this all could be easier if he could be there.
As I told the girl I told the mother, too, that she needed to think positive. She should not think that she is in trouble and she should not think of that man anyway. He was a cheater and he is gone but that is past. You lived the past twelve years looking back but now turn around and just see that you are doing very well. You are living, you are fine and you have a wonderful daughter. And when your daughter gets this new, positive energy from you and sees you with this attitude, it will be very good for her. She will see that everything is fine, that her mother is fine and this all will help both, mother and daughter, to gain self-confidence and to be happy!