I sometimes receive mails in which people ask me to fix their relationships which are not working well anymore. In other mails people tell me that they are in love with a boy or a girl and they would like me to bring them together. Some people want to have spells to get rich and successful. Again others ask me in mails to send energy to heal diseases, balance their lives, to get them a job and more. Sometimes they want it for free, sometimes they ask me what my fees would be for such services.
I thought it would be good to write a very clear blog post about this matter and just tell people that I do not do this. I of course do counseling with people. That could be even on phone but usually it is when I sit in front of the person. Sometimes it is couples whom I counsel – together or separately – and with my advice, my words and maybe a different point of view, I help them heal their relationship. In the same way I help people to realize their thinking patterns and to change them and thus change their lives.
What I don’t do though is to send spells because I think that would be fooling people. I also don’t ‘get someone to love you’. It is impossible to force love on someone – how should that work, even if I knew that person and he or she was standing in front of me? What I don’t do either is to ‘send energy’ and to charge for it. That, in my opinion, would be cheating, too. You cannot expect that you send someone money and he will fix your life. It just doesn’t work! You are trying to find an easy way out without taking responsibility.
With most people who ask this however I feel that they are in reality victims and were cheated. Most of them tell me that they had already been in touch with some guru, swami or healer and had sometimes paid enourmous amounts of money to those cheaters – but nothing happened! They paid 20000 Euro to someone to fix their energy fields or they paid 10000 Dollar to someone who said he would get them a partner!
I get amazed when I read those numbers. They pay this much money to those people but they would never give this much money to support children, to give food and education and to help a child improve his or her life!
Another thing that I am always surprised about is that we are not talking about people of a small Indian village who live sometimes without running water. We are talking about people from developed European countries. They have been to school and they are educated but they want to believe those cheaters. Why would those guys not increase their business and charge more and more as long as there are people to give?
I want to warn you from those people. They can have different faces and present themselves in many different ways. They come to you with the mask of spirituality, of religion or of God. Their background can be Christian, Hindu or anything else. Their shop could be small or very big. They could have ten people following or millions. They usually offer something that you don’t have to do anything for, it sounds like magic and it costs a lot. It can involve past lives or parts of your soul. It is not always easy to recognize them but before you put thousands of Euros or Dollars into their hands, please think again and decide more wisely!
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A guru is supposed to remove illusions, not create more. Plus, in my “spiritual search”, I have found that there is no “I”, just the experience of “I”.
When I read “20000 Euro” I hoped, that this is a joke. In the name of God or religion those Gurus try to develop their business by cheating people, who are maybe in a hard stage of their life and hope to gain luck and happiness. Come on, where is your morality? How can you be such an exploiter and pretend to be spiritual?