From yesterday’s diary entry you know that I find love sexy. Yes, I find a whole lot of things sexy that have to do with love and that’s how I see anything related to sexuality also related to love. While thinking along those lines, I realized that I still believe that this love, the great big intimate love of your life, can only happen with one person. Not several. And that’s how I believe a polygamous relationship, a relationship with several partners at the same time, cannot really work.
I have really seen many people trying but have not seen anybody ever succeeding. There were always issues with jealousy and I think the base of this is that you just cannot give this same great love to several people.
I don’t doubt that you can actually get intimate with several people at a time. Why not – that would be a matter of the body and you may strongly like or even love the people you are having sex with. But the love that I am talking about, this big, all-encompassing love which means that you accept whoever the other is, no, that won’t be shared in such a session!
How could you? How could it be the same feeling of the deepest connection? Isn’t the best part that you know the other one to a point that nobody else does? That no part of mind or body is taboo for you and only for you?
Then there is the physical question: you feel your loved one touching your body and you know this touch. You just know the way your partner’s fingers hold yours, how the other hand stroked your hips – how can you have the same enjoyment the next day with someone else? Another way of moving the hand, another feeling of fingers – wouldn’t you compare and thus somehow love one more than the other? You can never have the same feeling for another person!
No, emotionally, physically, mentally, I believe you cannot fully surrender to several partners and love each of them in the same deep way. You can have a night together. You can have a great time. You can enjoy sex, physical love.
But you won’t have the great love of your life with three or four people.
Prove me wrong if you can. 🙂
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