Unshaped Love – 25 Jun 13

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Can you love more than one?

Yes, of course you can. What is love?

When you feel love for a man, do you have to marry him?

When you love a woman, do you really have to sleep with her?

Fall in love with as many people as you wish. Spread your love generously, don’t hold back. Feel the joy of loving others and being loved. Look into their eyes, talk about the things you care about, share what is on your heart.

No need to marry everyone. No need to have sex with everyone.

Love does not depend merely on the physical relation. It doesn’t have to be a kiss, a romance, not even a flirt.

Love is just love.

Your love relation may be the big love, the one and only whom you marry and spend the rest of your life with.

That is love.

Your love relation may mean a deep friendship over years.

That is also love.

Your love relation may only lead until a shared hour having a cup of coffee.

That is also love.

Your love relation may only extend for a moment when your eyes meet and share a connection. A split second of realizing that you and the other one share this world. Nothing more.

That is also love.

Love has its beauty in any and every way. Whether the loved one knows about your love or not, enjoy it.

Love is an experience. It is a feeling. It belongs to you but also to everyone else.

Don’t try to frame it, to make it fit, to change it to match your idea. Don’t give it the name of a certain relation. Don’t limit it but love freely.

Let love be what it is.

Love is free.

Love is for all.

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