In his blog Balendu often talks about identity and about knowing who you are.

The spiritual scene has a big contribution in creating problems with people’s identity for example if you don’t connect with your identity, where you are from and where you belong or simply who you are.

Balendu explains how you realize that you have issues with accepting yourself how you can work on accepting your identity.

Category: Identity

Be careful with judging others - they may do the same with you! - 22 Feb 16
Be careful with judging others – they may do the same with you! – 22 Feb 16
Swami Balendu writes about judging others around you, especially if you have only had a ... Read More
The Role of Ideals in your Life - and why you don't need them as an Adult - 5 Feb 15
The Role of Ideals in your Life – and why you don’t need them as an Adult – 5 Feb 15
Swami Balendu writes about the development of ideals in life from birth until adulthood ... Read More
Don't hide the Changes of your Life! Your Past is a Part of you! - 13 Sep 12
Don’t hide the Changes of your Life! Your Past is a Part of you! – 13 Sep 12
Swami Balendu writes about changes in life and tells people not to get ashamed or ... Read More
Enjoy your uniqueness, enjoy being you! - 16 Aug 12
Enjoy your uniqueness, enjoy being you! – 16 Aug 12
Swami Balendu writes about the fact that there is no other person who is exactly ... Read More
No Need to Fit in a Scheme - 9 Aug 10
No Need to Fit in a Scheme – 9 Aug 10
Swami Ji writes about stereotypes and how people sort others but also themselves into categories ... Read More
Why are you Hiding your Birthdate? - 19 Jul 10
Why are you Hiding your Birthdate? – 19 Jul 10
Swami Ji writes about people who do not want others to know their birthdate. Read ... Read More
Make-up - Another Form of hiding Identity - 14 Jul 10
Make-up – Another Form of hiding Identity – 14 Jul 10
Swami Ji writes about make-up and how it is a form of hiding although you ... Read More
Do not Hide your Identity behind fake Emotions - 12 Jul 10
Do not Hide your Identity behind fake Emotions – 12 Jul 10
Swami Ji writes about a very common behavior: hiding your identity and who you are ... Read More
The Ideal you are running after is not real - Accept Yourself! - 13 Sep 09
The Ideal you are running after is not real – Accept Yourself! – 13 Sep 09
Swami ji writes about the competition that many people have with an imaginary 'better life' ... Read More
Meaning of the Last Name Goswami - 8 Sep 09
Meaning of the Last Name Goswami – 8 Sep 09
Swami Ji writes about the meaning of his last name Goswami: the owner of his ... Read More
The Lie of our Perfect Ideal Identity - 10 Aug 09
The Lie of our Perfect Ideal Identity – 10 Aug 09
Swami Ji writes about the story of a perfect life which we try to live ... Read More
Accept it if you are not Spontaneous, do not fight with it - 17 Jun 09
Accept it if you are not Spontaneous, do not fight with it – 17 Jun 09
Swami Ji writes that you do not need to be spontaneous and do not have ... Read More
Know who you are and act like that - 14 Apr 09
Know who you are and act like that – 14 Apr 09
Swami ji writes about people who play a role in their life instead of being ... Read More
Playing Roles that Fulfill Expectations of Others - 6 Jan 09
Playing Roles that Fulfill Expectations of Others – 6 Jan 09
Swami Ji writes about the different roles we play and why it is sometimes difficult ... Read More
Many Faces that you show the World - 2 Jan 09
Many Faces that you show the World – 2 Jan 09
Swami ji writes from the first Darshan of the year in which he talked about ... Read More
Say and Do what you Think and Feel - 7 Jun 08
Say and Do what you Think and Feel – 7 Jun 08
Swami Ji talks about the difference that is between what you say, what you do ... Read More
Be Yourself - Do not Play a Role - 20 May 08
Be Yourself – Do not Play a Role – 20 May 08
Swami Ji?s Darshan about the importance of being in your originality and honesty, not only ... Read More
Accept Yourself - even if you are different - 11 Apr 08
Accept Yourself – even if you are different – 11 Apr 08
Swami ji talks about acting and trying to be someone else who you are not ... Read More
Your Identity, Roots and Culture - 07 Feb 08
Your Identity, Roots and Culture – 07 Feb 08
You have to accept your own identity. Know where your roots are and do not ... Read More