Yesterday I said that hurting somebody is the biggest sin. And you can hear very often when a couple broke up that both of them say the other one gave them so much pain and hurt them. And many people when they get hurt, not only in relationships, want to harm others. But it is important that you do not hurt anyone just because you are in this feeling at the moment. Even if you have the wish for revenge, do not follow this. Forgive.
Forgiveness is the biggest jewel of human life. Everybody needs to have this in their heart. If something happens which hurts you and you are angry, please learn to forgive. If not, you will cause pain for yourself; you will burn yourself on the fire of your anger. You need to go through your emotions, of course, but then, without hurting the other one you can forgive. Don't keep that in your heart.
Sometimes it is very difficult and we find it hard to forgive. We ask why? She or he did that to me, why should I forgive her or him? But we have to learn to forgive, not only others but also ourselves. We often do this kind of thing that we need to forgive ourselves. If we do not forgive ourselves we feel guilty and create anger for ourselves. This is why many people learn to forgive themselves. It is easier. We also have situations in which we forgive ourselves and when someone else does the same then we do not want to forgive him. Why do we burn in anger for others, if we forgive ourselves the same mistake? This is a very good reason to forgive others: you may have done the same and you did forgive yourself! Forgiveness will give you satisfaction and peace.
Ann and her husband Christy came from Ireland to visit me here and Sabine also came for dinner. It is nice to have company of lovely people and to be together. Yashendu was busy in making a photo album for our website which is why I cooked today. Everybody liked the food and it was very delicious. I also liked it. I love my cooking. Sabine brought something for dessert which we are going to eat now, let's see if I like it, it looks good!