People deal differently with situations in daily life and of course it has a lot to do with the basic attitude towards life and other people around you. And in more extreme situations you can see how some people turn to be fighters. They like to keep a problem, a fight alive and they often cannot see clearly in their anger. These people also feel attacked easily. Even though there is nobody who wishes to harm them, they expect the rest of the world to be fighters like them and they think they get attacked. A simple sentence in a discussion can make them want to defend themselves. They feel attacked and so they try to ‘bite back’. And they struggle and fight.
I am not really this kind of person. I actually do the opposite. If something is going nice and smooth, I am very happy. And if something is making many problems and it gets too much, I just quit. I do not like to fight then. I do not want to struggle and fight, I want to live in peace, easy and with love. Fighters always fear the next attack and they cannot lay down their weapons.